I was catching up on some of my favorite blogs and news sites over the weekend, and came across several debates about the potential repeal of the military's "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy. After reading through the thoughts of some very opinionated people on both sides of the issue, the main thing I couldn't get out of my head was the raging hypocrisy and complete lack of logic inherent in this policy.
I'm not a military law expert, but my understanding of the policy is that the military allows gays to serve, as long as they don't openly tell that they are gay. So let me get this straight (no pun intended!)...it's OK to be gay in the military, but only if you lie about it? Huh?!
Those who favor repealing the policy call it discriminatory and a violation of civil rights. Fine, but where were these people when the law was being enacted?
The Democrats like to attempt to claim exclusive ownership of the fight for civil rights, when history shows that is simply not true.
It was a Democrat president, Bill Clinton, who signed it into law in 1993. Clinton campaigned on a promise to allow all citizens to serve in the military regardless of sexual orientation. When it came time to actually lift the ban, however, Clinton ended up losing nerve and offering up this much watered down version of his campaign promise. I find it hypocritical to campaign as a gay rights advocate, then turn around and enact a policy that basically tells gays to sit down and shut up. It's just plain disrespectful. Obama has also totally wimped out on the issue, giving good talking points during the campaign but crossing his fingers and hoping the courts will do the hard work for him.
The standard arguments in favor of keeping the policy tend to fall into two categories: (1) concerns about sexual relationships causing drama among those serving together, and (2) the belief that gays in the military present some sort of security threat by endangering a unit's camaraderie or morale.
The first concern is easily addressed the same way the military handled it when women first began serving: enacting rules and regulations restricting fraternization and setting boundaries for relationships. The men and women serving in our military are intelligent adults, and they can understand the rules against relationships with their superiors, rules restricting relationships within their own units, rules prohibiting sexual assaults, and they can also understand the consequences for violating those rules. Gay people are not any dumber than the rest of us wandering around this earth - they can understand these rules too.
The second concern is the one that really drives me bonkers. If gays in the military are really a security problem, or a threat to a unit's morale, if they are really so "dangerous", then how can they magically not be dangerous anymore if they lie about it? I cannot think of any other situation where the rule is that a particular prohibited activity is fine as long as you lie about it first.
Is it OK if someone on the No-Fly List gets on a plane, as long as they have a fake ID? Is it OK if someone opens a credit card in your name, as long as they've stolen your identity first? Is it OK for someone to get a well-paid job, as long as they lie on their resume? Of course not. So if being gay is really, truly, a "threat" to morale, national security, or whatever, why do we allow them in the military if they lie about it? Isn't dishonesty a threat to morale and security too?